oops

i made a mistake at work. i let myself become too engaged with my co-workers and now have to back pedal. i let myself get caught up with a couple of others against the toad. it hasn't gotten ugly yet - but i found myself participating too much in catty (and funny, no doubt about that) gossip and behaviour. i shouldn't have. my motivation should be first and foremost to find another job.
the toad is annoying and i will do my best to ignore her completely going forward.
the others i will politely decline participation and continue to do so until their invitations cease.